Out there, cold, and still not fully alive yet

let's see, gundam 00 episode is getting more interesting than ever, kudos to the guys doing that anime.

some kids/chaps came to me not too long ago and asked help about their friendship with other people. all their situations are pretty similar, in fact they have matched so well that it's kinda scary. cases of friend wanna do something that is very outrageous (sucks for me because i was born in a 99.9% normal family) for some occassion (like v day or b day or whatever it is) then my friends stop thieir friends. and in the end they end up fighting.

cause, not because their friends are stubborn, but becaue my friends sucks (yeah, really sucked) at telling them not to, in a softer approach.

maybe it's becaue of work/study/NS/family/etc that makes them less smarter in communication. My P.O.C. email the whole office before, abt the dump truck theory. when a person dumps his shit load on you, don't go collecting them and include your own dump pile and dump it on other people. it stinks relationship and sow unhappiness. if someone empty his load on you, just brush them off and wish them a good day. hey, at least you make that guy/girl happy. and makes you look more mature too.